Marcus Cauchi

July 22, 2010

How To Win New Business Without Sounding Salesy

Here sales improvement specialist Marcus Cauchi uncovers techniques that anyone selling their products and services can use to quickly bond and build rapport with prospects so that they are more open to a sales conversation.

•    Why prospects hate salespeople
•    Why being different works
•    How to differentiate your business through the way you sell

It’s Monday morning at Shiny Widget Co and the sales team are hitting the phones.

Salesman: “Hello Mr Jones we sell shiny widgets. We are in your area on Monday at 4pm and on Wed. When can I come in a show you what I’ve got? I‘m sure we can save you money or make your life easier.”

Bob Jones: “Erm, what’s this about?”

Salesman: “Let me tell you,”

15 minutes later yarn.

Bob Jones: “Can you send me something?”

Salesman: “Sure, our online brochure is on its way.”

Next day and the salesman is following up on what he thought were hot buying signals.

Dring dring.

Bob Jones’ voicemail: “This is Bob Jones’ voice mail, please leave me a message and I will get straight back to you.”

What it is really saying: “This is Bob Jones’ voice mail jail, please leave your message after the tone and I promise I won’t get back to you. Your PDF went straight into trash and if by accident I pick up the phone I promise to give you a stream of excuses and if I’m really weak, I’ll ask you to send it again.”

Who hasn’t had that special someone keep you from your busy day, waste your valuable time, read like a robot from their script and rush towards the close promising you savings or a happier, more efficient life?

So who wants to be one of them? The clown in a suit with the bone crusher handshake, wearing his comedy tie who thinks that by telling you all his reasons for you to buy from him that his unwelcome interruption will cut through the noise of your real life; the 139 decisions you’ve still got to make that morning, your child being bullied at school and you being behind on your numbers by 47% for the quarter.

If you want to sell more, stop selling. Salespeople suffer from a disease called PPS, Premature Presentation Syndrome, where they have to tell the prospect about themselves, their company, their solutions, differences, competitiveness, return on invest, etc. In 99% of cases they do this without ever having heard the prospect specifically ask them to do so.

You sell to go to the bank. To go to the bank you have to gather information not give it. The moment you give information you’ve wet your powder and the buyer no longer needs you. You become a tick in the box and they know just which shelf to get you off. An educated prospect is no prospect at all.  Let me repeat that because it’s important, an educated prospect is no prospect at all.

The moment you start discussing your features and benefits without having the context of the personal reasons they have explicited stated that are motivating them to buy what you have now, you run the risk of dragging them into a pricing conversation. If you are selling on price, you are taking orders.

A client of mine told me that their frustration with being sold to is that they feel like it is all about the seller. They are running their agenda only, which is to reach the close and to get them to buy something. The seller rattles through their questions like it’s a checklist and their answers don’t really matter because the seller is only looking for the answers that fits their script. So my client protects themselves by giving wishy washy answers, being non-committal and non-specific.

When my client buys they want to believe and feel that the seller has their agenda, their best interests and their welfare in mind. They want the seller to take them through a process that helps them to discover their reasons for buying, the causes of their problems and to feel that they are leading them through to the hope that their problems can be fixed.

For that certainty my client would be happy to pay a premium. For the elimination of doubt that this is the right decision; for the belief that the other person’s interests can only be served by serving their interests; for leadership and a safe pair of hands, they’ll pay a premium and if they are willing to pay a premium they will take you to the bank.

Whatever business you think you are in, first and foremost you are in the going to the bank business.

Happy Selling!

July 5, 2010

What Opportunity To Improve Are You Wasting

Filed under: Cold calling,Discounting,Sales,Sales techniques — Marcus Cauchi @ 12:54 pm
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No matter how much the world of business may change, one factor will never change: Your most valuable sources of information are your customers. They will tell you what you’re doing right, what you’re doing wrong, and what you need to change immediately to remain competitive. Customer advisory groups may be the best consultants you’ll retain. There are some guidelines you can follow to get the most out of the group.

If customers believe they’re only doing you a favour, getting them to join will be a difficult sell. Make sure potential members understand that membership provides an opportunity to improve their business as they help you redesign yours.

Select advisory group members who are perceptive, vocal and motivated to participate. “Figurehead” members selected for their fame or position, but who won’t attend group meetings or give follow-up a high priority, will be of little value. It’s up to you to demonstrate to members that you need their advice to serve them better. Unless there’s a crisis, schedule no more than two meetings per year. Gathering more often will be seen as a chore and an unreasonable imposition.

Membership in your customer advisory group should be an honour and a privilege. You want members to feel good about service. Treat them to the best transportation, parking, refreshments, meals and meeting space. Have the CEO give them their charge and put in an appearance now and then at meetings. Write up their recommendations in prestigious company publications, and thank them publicly.

The ideas that you get from your customer advisory group will enable you to advance the fortunes of your business. Implement the ideas that will work, and tell participants why you might choose not to implement others. If you ignore their suggestions or drag your feet in applying them, you may never again have customers who are willing to serve on the advisory group.

(c) Sandler Systems Inc, 2006

Happy selling!

Regards

June 28, 2010

Why Giving Your Customers Strokes is Profitable

Filed under: Networking,Sales,Sales techniques — Marcus Cauchi @ 11:52 am
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Did you know that the most common reason that customers leave suppliers isn’t bad service … it’s lack of nurturing?

A child ignored by it’s parents will develop self-destructive behaviours to get it’s “strokes” even if they are negative. Being ignored is worse than no attention at all. Customers are the same.

Different Strokes
1. Fuzzies
2. Pricklies
3. Rubber bands

A fuzzy is a complement, an unsolicited positive stroke e.g “Good morning Bob, how are you?”, “Ana, you’re looking lovely” “Nice work Bob” or just sending an unsolicited cutting about a customer’s hobby or interests with a handwritten note saying “I saw this and thought you might find it interesting”

A prickly is a negative stroke – “Has anyone seen Marcus’s horrific tie?”, “Why do you always do that Marcus?” or when you say Good Morning, someone blanking and you not responding.

A rubber band looks like a fuzzy but is actually a prickly. “Has anyone seen the lovely tie Marcus is wearing….was it a present from his mother in law?”

Why A Fuzzy File?
I’m sure you get the gist. The point is, have you ever considered keeping a “fuzzy file”? What do your prospects and customers enjoy, what interests them, what do they get excited about. Doesn’t it make sense to get to know your customers and prospects and build up a fuzzy file of their interests, hobbies and family so that you can let them know you are thinking about them (without trying to sell them something).

RULE: All things being equal, people buy from people they like and trust. All things not being equal …people still buy from people they like and trust

It is not a crime to be liked by your customers. If you’re not taking care of your customers, who else is?

RULE: Customers leave you because they are stroke deprived, not because of bad service

What did you do in the last 3 months to demonstrate to your best customers that you appreciate their business?

What have you done to nurture your client relationships in the last 3 months?

What can you do in the next 3 months to protect your best accounts from your competition?

Happy selling!

June 11, 2010

The 7 Reasons Why YOU Fail to Sell

Filed under: Sales,Sales techniques — Marcus Cauchi @ 2:43 pm
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“I’ve failed a lot and often. I was in sales for nearly 17 years before I discovered these secrets to selling successfully. I’d actually gained 1 year’s experience seventeen times because the lessons I learned in my first year of attracting attention, generating interest, building desire and instigating action formed the basis of everything I did in sales. I knew it wasn’t working but my management kept encouraging me to do the same things I’d always done and I was too blind to see the harm I was doing myself.” Marcus Cauchi

Every month I struggled to pay the bills, the mortgage, the groceries, and every month I kept myself upbeat and positive …. But nothing improved. I moved from job to job to job, and got through interviews because I was good at interviews.

I discovered a system of selling three years ago that transformed the way I sell. My close rate increased from 1:10 to 9:10 in less than 2 years. My day rate has risen by more than eighty times. My self esteem has gone through the roof and I fear nothing the prospect can throw at me.

I recognise that how I perceived my own worth i.e.my self-concept, determined how much I earned not my customer, my market or my competition. I’m in control. Now, that is a much happier place to be than being tossed about by the tides of the market, the economy and my employers or customers. If you’re sick and tired of being part of someone else’s plan for your future and your success, and you’re angry enough to do something about it, read on.

Secret 1: Fail to Plan, Plan to Fail

I pooh-poohed all attempts at setting goals. “They don’t work for me”, “I can’t be bothered” and actually I was right. They didn’t work for me and I became despondent because the goals I did set when I tried to set them were doomed to failure. Why? Because they were results based goals not behavioural goals and they were often set for me not with me or by me.

You can only manage what you can control. I can’t control the prospect signing the cheque but I can manage the behaviours that get me there – the number of dials, letters, marketing emails I make or send; the number of cold calls I make until I speak to a decision maker; the number of face to face meetings I go on, the number of times I’d qualify a suspect until they warranted my time to make a presentation etc.

Fail to have a plan of your own and you will always become part of someone else’s plan.

Secret 2: Fail to Prospect, Plan to Fail

I’ve never had to queue to cold call, have you? We all hate doing it but you don’t have to like making them, you just have to make them. Anyone who says they like making them is either sick, lying or has never made one!

Fail to prospect and you are at the mercy of Lady Luck. Would you be comfortable gambling your house, your marriage and your children on the hope that Luck will provide and you’ll always have enough customers at the end of your current project or sale to keep you afloat? Probably not! So why do so many of us do this? Feast to famine to feast to famine. Over 80% of 2000 small business owners and salespeople I’ve interviewed or trained were lucky to be 35% productive in any given year. That means for a MAXIMUM of 65% of the year their time is taken up with navel gazing and waiting for the phone to ring. (many admit ot be as little as 10-20% productive). You’re probably not that ineffective, but if you are, you’re not prospecting effectively or often enough.

Do you know who’s in your target market? Have you defined them clearly? How can you contact them? When you do make initial contact what are you going to say to get them to invite you in to meet them?

Apparently a recent DTI (UK department of trade and industry) survey noted that 47% of new business was generated by word of mouth and a whopping 43% was initiated via a cold call. Combine networking and asking for referrals with cold calling and that’s 90% of new business generation delivered via these two tried and tested methods.

When you network be specific and ask for referrals all the time. On that note, if you know any business owners or executives responsible for sales revenues or sales teams in the London region in Technology, Telecommunications, Professional Services, Financial Services or Banking who are frustrated with the performance of their sales, who find themselves losing in bids and tenders or struggling to recruit the right salespeople first time every time, do drop them a line with my details (07876 616983 or MCauchi@SALTeurope.com) or give me their details and I’ll make the call myself!

Secret 3: Never Sound Like Your Competition

Write down your “elevator pitch” i.e. your 1-minute introduction that tells prospective buyers why they should invite you in to meet them. Now, imagine your business had folded or you were fired from your sales job and you’d been hired by a close competitor. Now write down their elevator pitch. Is it any different, really? “We help companies like yours who want to improve , , .” Blah, blah, blah! Buyers have heard it all before, probably a dozen times before you finally stopped shuffling bits of paper and writing “follow up emails” and made that dreaded cold call.

Never talk about yourself, your company or what you do. Always focus on the customer, their problems and what they want. Always try to enter the conversation they’re already having inside their heads about their problems.

Mine might sound something like this.

“John, we help business owners and salespeople in small and medium sized service businesses who are frustrated that their sales pipeline looks weak or empty and they’re worried that if they don’t fix this soon, they’ll miss their targets and struggle to pay their bills.

“Others are afraid that when they get in front of a prospective buyer that they’ll get sucked into a discussion about price prematurely and find themselves in a bidding war where price is the central issue and they’ll struggle to compete at a profit.

“Typically, many are angry at the level of free consulting they give, finding that their best ideas are stolen by buyers who try to solve their problems by themselves or give their ideas to their competition …. and they get paid for your hard work.

“I don’t suppose these are problems you ever face in your business?”

Where is there a mention of my products or services? At what point do I talk about myself, my company or my features and benefits?

Secret 4: Never Sell Using Features and Benefits
If you cold call, or speak to a prospect or networking group, using your standard features and benefits you will get drowned out in the wall of noise that surrounds them, won’t you? That’s never happened to you, has it? Your call may be the most important call they receive that day, that week, that month, that year or ever, but if you don’t get the air time and they don’t sit up and pay attention, it’s a waste of your time and effort isn’t it?

So the answer is speak to their pain. Even if when they woke up, the sky was blue and the sun shining and they had no idea they needed your product or service, if you speak to their pains, you will grab their attention and they will invite you in. You must never beg for an appointment and you should leave them with questions NOT answers. They should want to know more not have their questions answered or what’s the purpose of them inviting you in.

Focus on their pains and whose data are you using? Yours or theirs? Prospects never argue with their own data but they’ll argue with yours until you’re blue in the face. Make your “pitch” using your features and benefits and you might hear “we already have that covered”, “we’re happy with our current provider”, “not interested”, “send me some information”, “the timing isn’t right”, “we have no budget for that at the moment”, “call me back in 6 months” …. But that’s never happened to you, has it?

Secret 5: Close At The Beginning

Traditional selling teaches us to qualify (i.e. make sure they have the money, authority and need to buy what you’re offering), present (explain your solution, prove your value and demonstrate your credibility), close (get commitment) and follow up (send a proposal, do a demonstration, send pricing), but this is the road to ruin. I did this for 16 years and was permanently broke. One month I’d hit target the next two I wouldn’t and so on and so forth. I had credit card debts, overdrafts, I struggled to pay my bills, couldn’t afford to go on holiday year after year, and every brown envelope that came through my door gave me bile and nausea. Familiar?

That was until I learned to contract in clear, specific and certain terms with my prospects. Let me give you an example.

“Once we finish talking and you’ve seen how what I do applies to you in your business, in your role, I want you to make a decision. You can say “no” and “no” means you will simply decide that what I teach isn’t for you, I can’t help you, my systematic approach to selling can’t help you increase your sales or you’re so happy with the way your business is running that you don’t want to improve, in which case you will say “Marcus, no thank you” and we can part friends. That’s what “no” means. Is that fair?

You can say “yes”. Let’s start with what “yes” doesn’t mean. It doesn’t mean you’ll become my next client. I’m expensive and picky about who I work with. And you may hate me when we speak! What “yes” does mean is that you want to take a call from me to discuss your problems with sales and to explore if I feel I can help you improve your performance or the performance of your company in sales. Now, I don’t know if I can help you as we’ve not spoken for some time if at all, and I’d be lying if I said I could without diagnosing what’s happening to you and what’s holding you back.

If either of us feel at that point that there is no fit, we can both say “no” and end the conversation then and there. If on the other hand we both agree that there may be a fit and you want to take things further, we’ll agree one of two things. You’ll attend my next Executive Briefing on the 7th November 2006 in London (0830-1230) which will require you invest an entire morning and £147+VAT learning why buyers control you today and what to do to reverse that problem so you are always in control. Or, you’ll invite me in to meet you for up to 90 minutes to discuss a tailored programme of sales training for you or your team. At that meeting we’ll dig deeper into the causes of your problems which requires me to ask you some tough and direct questions and for you to give me direct and honest answers back. Once we’ve diagnosed the causes of your problems we’ll need to agree what you want to do about them. You can say “no” and end it there or we’ll need to agree how much time, money and resource you’re willing to invest to make these problems go away. Does that make sense?

There are two reasons why when we meet you may decide you don’t want to do business with me. The first is what I teach is tough and takes time to learn, and you might be someone who is unwilling to do what’s necessary to get buyers to buy from you because you’re more interested in being liked and being seen as technically strong or professional. This means that you are more interested in staying stuck than you are in helping yourself and I can only help people who are ready to change and want to improve.

The second is that I’m expensive and your fear of loss is greater than your desire to succeed. You want guarantees when I can only guarantee I’ll deliver my side of the bargain, good material with strong delivery and support but I have no control over your behaviour in the sales situation, you practicing the material and techniques and forming your own good selling habits, and you reinforcing the changes in yourself and your salespeople when I’m not around. You don’t see yourself as ever being good at selling no matter how well equipped you are because you think of selling as a dirty way to make a living and you’re more worried that your mother will be upset that you’re selling at a profit than being seen as a “professional” or “technical” expert in your field. My costs will vary from a one off of as little as £997+VAT to tens of thousands of pounds per annum per head. If we get that far, we’ll need to talk about your budget, where you’ll find the money to pay for my services be they training, coaching or consulting, your timescales and your decision making process i.e. who besides yourself will be involved in making the decision to retain my services, when, where, how and what the process looks like.

Neither side will waste any time, and we’ll both always know what will happen next. Does that seem reasonable?”

Clear, specific and certain in its terms, that is the basis for a strong up front contract. Now when did the close happen? If we reach the point where you ask me to help you, all I’m doing is confirming the order, aren’t I?

How different is that to trying to close at the end of a 2, 3 or 7 meeting sales cycle that may have lasted for weeks or months and cost me how much?

How much do new business meetings cost you? Is that where your profit might be going? Doing busy work that doesn’t result in revenue is the road to ruin and many of your predecessors’ corpses litter the road to where you are today. Do you really want to become another business-failure statistic?

Now do you see why you should close at the beginning not the end?

Secret 6: You Gain More Credibility From The Questions You Ask Than From The Information You Give

A couple of sales truisms do hold water. “Telling isn’t selling”. “You were probably born with 2 ears and one mouth, so use them in that order”. Every sales opportunity should be treated as a sales interview not as a sales pitch. You are in the sale to gather information not to give it.

How often do your sales meetings involve you spilling your guts, delivering “death by Powerpoint”? Do you give away your thoughts, your ideas, your information and leave your prospect with all their questions answered? If you do, why would a prospect need to invite you back? Why would they need to hire you or buy your products? All they have to do is pick up the phone at some time in the future and you’ll come running to do the same thing over and over and over again.

You giving your presentation is something a prospect should earn, it isn’t a right. Not every prospect is qualified to receive your presentation. And presentations are only given to prospects who have committed to some clearly defined action like agreeing to buy your product or service if your presentation confirms that you are the person or company to help them solve their problems.

And they are only given when you have identified and gathered all the decision makers together (I know you can’t always do this but in most cases a good seller will manage this process and secure all the decision makers so they only have to present once and to everyone involved in the decision so a decision can be made instead of a fob-off like “I’d like to think it over”, “I need to talk to my boss”) and you have addressed all their objections up front.

If you’re presenting and you find yourself handling objections like “it’s too expensive”, “we don’t have the budget in this quarter”, “I can get this cheaper/faster/better up the road”, “ABC company does the same as you and we see no reason to change”, then you have presented too soon and you haven’t done your job in the sale correctly. I don’t suppose you have interest in finding out how you can be in the position where this never happens to you again?

Secret 7: Act As If You Are Financially Independent And You Don’t Need The Business

Have you ever walked into a room and there’s a big cuddly Rottweiller behind the door? How can you react? You can either be calm and relaxed in which case chances are he won’t attack or you can show your fear and he’ll snarl, growl, bark and his hackles will go up.

Prospects are like Rotties! They smell your fear, your neediness and your desperation. If you give the air of someone who needs the business, they’ll stall, they quibble over price and then when you make a concession, they’ll go for the jugular and see what else they can get from you. They do that, don’t they?

Or they’ll play it neutral, letting you sweat, letting you make unilateral concessions, one sided giveaways that mean that you’re always on your back foot. You even get emotionally involved in the sale, having invested so much time and effort, several visits, a couple of demonstrations, writing a proposal, making amendments, rushing to meet deadlines only to find yourself in voicemail jail where you hurry up and provide all the information they want when they want it, and you get unlimited access to their voicemail.

Develop walk-away power. How do you do that? The clue is in Secret 2. If you have a full pipeline what do you have that you don’t have now?

Choices come from setting the right foundations, building your prospect pipeline and disqualifying non-prospects quickly and ruthlessly. Choice comes from learning to be brave 5-seconds at a time and being willing, even dedicated to hear a prospect tell you “no”. The more times you hear “no”, the better. There are two reasons why a “no” is a good thing. The first is you get rid of the deadwood faster and the second is selling, real selling, generally starts when you hear a prospect say “no” to you.

The reason is the positive prospect is your worst prospect. The neutral prospect is your toughest prospect and the negative prospect is your best prospect.

I can almost hear you ask “How can that be? It doesn’t make sense.” Think about that for a moment and if you want to know why this is the case then you’ll just have to call me or invite me in to meet you. You probably have no interest in learning why what you know about sales is wrong and has lost you so much time and money over the years you will want to cry. In fact, you’re probably of the view that if you do more of what you’re already doing, sales is a numbers game and you’ll eventually reach your goals.

Decide, Take Action
If you recognise that you’re already working like a dog, your cleaner probably earns more per hour than you do, that your family is suffering and you are taking one step forwards and 2 steps back, that your prospect controls you and you have no way of performing consistently, predictably and above your financial targets you may want to email me for a conversation on MCauchi@SALTeurope.com to help me understand why and you to understand what to do about it.

Remember, if you see no fit, if you have no interest in what I may be able to help you achieve and you are OK with your performance you can say “no” by sending me an email to Unsubscribe@SALTeurope.com. I’m fine with a “no” and welcome your honesty and directness as neither of us want to waste our time.

Qualify Whether You Feel You Need Help
If on the other hand you want to take things further, you might want to qualify yourself further by completing this self-assessment of where your problems lie in your own sales processes.

1. Do you struggle to meet enough genuine, qualified prospects who are able and willing to spend enough money and invest enough time and resource to make the problems you can fix go away? Yes / No

2. You struggle to get invited in to meet genuine decision makers without pushing or begging for an appointment. When you do set up meetings prospects sometimes cancel without warning or worse, don’t show up? Yes / No

3. Have you recently found yourself giving away too much free consulting and you have had enough of having your best ideas stolen while you don’t get paid for them? Yes / No

4. Do you do anything and everything to avoid making cold calls, in fact you’d prefer to visit the dentist for an unanaesthetised root canal filling rather than make a cold call? Yes / No

5. Do you ever find yourself in long sales cycles with unpredictable outcomes which cost you a lot of time and in some cases money and scarce resources? Yes / No

6. Have you recently been in front of a prospect who was positive, showed every sign of buying and still they told you they needed to “think about it”, or they asked you for a proposal which you hurried to produce and they still haven’t given you a decision long after you expected one? Yes / No

7. You have a drawer full of outstanding proposals but no decision is being reached and you’re frustrated by that? Yes / No

8. When you try to close a prospect for a decision, you find their defence walls go up, they hit you with objections, stalls and smoke screens to keep you coming back for more, giving more and more information away and you almost never know where you really stand despite what they tell you? Yes / No

9. Your forecasts are more a guess than a prediction. You can’t grow your business because you just don’t know where and when revenue will drop. You speak to your partners, your boss, your bank or your accountant and you have no idea when, why or how much business will land? Yes / No

10. You’re uncomfortable selling or scared of facing prospects, you get nervous about selling because you don’t like sales, your concept of salespeople is negative and you don’t want other people to think of you as a salesperson? Yes / No

11. When you make presentations you find that not every point you make is relevant and you see the reaction of your buyer; they waver or they lose momentum, or they tell you how interesting your presentation is but they just don’t buy? Yes / No

12. You find yourself in bid or tender situations and you’re frustrated that you come “a close second” too often for comfort, after all, all tenders and bids cost you time and money which is in scarce supply? Yes / No

13. Your competition does stuff you don’t do, is cheaper, better, faster, smaller, bigger, has a better reputation, better clients, better marketing, better collateral, bigger budgets, bigger guns … and you feel like an also-ran or you’re afraid you’re going to “be found out”? Yes / No

14. You feel like you’re just pacing time as “column fodder” where the buyer needs to have 3 quotes and you’re number 2 or 3 and someone else is earmarked to win the business? Yes / No

15. Your business depends on you to bring home the bacon, your family depend on you to bring in the income and the pressure of the sale crushes you because you know you need to make it, but you let your nerves, your desperation, your fear show and prospects take advantage of you?
Yes / No

If you’ve answered “yes” to more than 2 of these questions and you’re worried or angry enough to want to begin to do something about them within the next 8 weeks, see in your mind’s eye the outcome you want to achieve decide, then act.

Wishing you successful selling!

May 10, 2010

Sell today educate tomorrow

How often do you find yourself talking instead of listening? How often do you find yourself using the time you have to talk, telling and not asking questions?

Are you ever guilty of trying to demonstrate your own brilliance and knowledge by presenting your solution to a prospect before they’ve committed to buy from you? Have you ever invested precious time, money and resources proving to a prospect that you can help them identify their needs, give them solutions to their problems …. and then wonder why you aren’t closing enough business.

You gain credibility from the questions you ask not from the information you give. Your job in the sale is to gather information not to give it.

You’re in sales to go to the bank …. not to prove how bright, knowledgeable, educated or wonderful you are.

If you’re giving information what aren’t you doing?

You’re not gathering information. You’re doing free consulting. You’re telling the prospect what s/he wants to know …. so what reason does your prospect have for retaining your company or your services? Not much.

This lesson learned late in my career cost me over £12 million in fee income and £3.6 million in lost commission.

Rule: Prospects never argue with their own data.

Gather their data and play it back to them in the form of their pain and in my experience and the experience of my clients you’ll sell more, more often.

Happy selling!

May 4, 2010

W.A.I.T. and See

I came across a very useful little acronym.

W.
A.
I.
T.

Why
Am
I
Talking

It works on 2 levels. Whether you’re infront of a prospect, a network contact or with family and friends, Stephen Covey’s 5th habit of highly effective people is “Seek first to understand then to be understood”. You’ve probably heard the cliche “You have 2 ears and one mouth, use them in that order”. Well if you ask yourself “why am I talking?”, you realise that either you may be talking drivvel or not listening to what your counterpart is actually saying.

The other level it works on is that it helps you to find the time to actually consider what has been said by your prospect, and use that understanding to formulate your next question.

It is a fatal flaw in many salespeople that they spend the time that should be listening, half listening and trying to work out what they’re going to ask or answer next.

WAIT and you have time (at least 3-5 seconds) to demonstrate you’re taking in what was said by the other party and to formulate a better question.

Does this make sense? Think about that for a moment.

Playing the WAITing game also allows you to draw out so much more information from prospects by using listening noises, body language etc than you might otherwise gain.

Remember …. YOUR JOB IN THE SALE IS TO GATHER INFORMATION NOT TO GIVE IT. Telling isn’t selling.

So many of us in sales can’t wait to prove our worth, demonstrate our credibility by getting up and presenting. This is a big mistake and will cost you tens of thousands in personal income, year on year. And when you establish the cost in terms of lifetime customer value lost, modifying this one behaviour, the costs can run into the millions. What are you doing to make sure you or your people are WAITing for your prospects to tell you how to sell to them? How do you make sure you’re gathering the intelligence you need BEFORE you spill your candy and make your presentation.

PRESENTING IS NOT SELLLING. Don’t you gain more credibility from the questions you ask NOT the information you give?

April 23, 2010

Why cold calling is tough for normal people

You’re 3 years old; your mother is warning you not to talk to strangers. You see the expression of worry on her face; you sense that she is saying this for a reason. It’s not like “Stop picking your nose Richard!”. This time there’s a pleading, worried, emphatic tone in her voice. “Don’t talk to strangers; they can take you away and hurt you, and mummy will be so worried if that happens. Please be careful darling.” Remember that conversation.

Now this is awesome advice in the context of the world of a 3 year old ….. but not so good if you’re 40, self-employed and trying to pay a mortgage, school fees, car payments, credit card debt, service the loan you took out to set up your business, perhaps pay monthly royalties or interest payments … oh, and put food on the table.

Got young kids? Does your mother-in-law live miles away? So it doesn’t matter what the kids look like then?

Philip Larkin – This Be The Verse

They f*** you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were f***ed up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself

OK, another mental script on permanent loop in our brains many of us run is …….

“Don’t interrupt” sometimes with the additional “I’m busy”. You came in from school and your father was reading the paper, balancing the cheque book (my personal phobia because he was so miserable and grumpy all the time when he was doing this and for several hours afterwards) or watching the news for the umpteenth time that day. Or your mother was busily involved doing something for you to prepare you for the following day at school and you wanted their attention. Instead they sent you away with a fly in your ear because what they were doing felt more important to them than what you wanted to talk to them about.

Now this one is a biggie. Are you ready for it? Think about this …… when was the battle of Hastings? Which year?

Did anyone not get 1066?

Ok, why do we nearly always answer questions? Gatekeepers’ questions, prospects’ questions …. we always seem to be answering them, don’t we.

RULE: ‘The Gatekeeper is not your mother’

This means you don’t have to answer the gatekeepers’ questions but we do. Why? Imagine you’re about 5 or 6.

Mum: “Tom, where have you been?”
You: “Nowhere”
Mum: “Don’t lie to me Thomas, where have you been?”
You: “Nowhere!”
Mum: “Thomas, for the last time answer my question. Where have you been?”
You: “Hrrrrrmmmppph! Just outside playing on my bike”
Mum: “Didn’t I tell you to come in and finish your homework half an hour ago?”
You: (sighing) Yes!
Mum: “Then why haven’t you done it? Get upstairs now and finish it. Then come downstairs, wash your hands and tell me why I shouldn’t tell your father!”
You: “Oh OK. Please don’t tell daddy.”
Mum: “Well run up stairs and do as you’re told. Be a good boy!” (as she shakes her head)

This scenario played out countless times in different contexts time and again in many of our childhoods. Or was it just me?

Our high need for approval is a killer. One client of mine, a lovely guy. He’s bright – an IQ well above mine – articulate, historically very competent worked for a global engineering brand had a punishing father. Not physically punishing as far as I’m aware, but nothing “Frank” (name changed to protect the innocent) did was every quite good enough. A “b” grade should have been an “a”, coming 2nd wasn’t good enough despite the fact he’d tried so hard and worked his way up from 5th or 6th last time ….. and he carries this baggage with him to this day. He spends his time seeking approval of strangers because he can’t get it from his dad. And his mother tells her friends “Frank used to work for Rolls Royce … but now he sells some consulting thing!” Apparently she actually does this. “Frank” has doubled his income in 3 years going self employed but because of his need for approval he holds himself back.

Put these scripts and the many others “It’s rude to talk about money”, “he’s busy, he must be important”, “children should be seen and not heard”, “be nice”, “CHEER UP!” and so many others have messed us up. They don’t mean to mess us up but they do …….

Larkin’s right. (You always knew it was your mother’s fault!!) they do f*** us up. Unintentional, well meaning scripting embedded from childhood holds us back. And in cold calling and selling, all these fears, phobias, prejudices, paranoia come flooding together to paralyse us. They hobble our legs, our tongue goes dry, we get butterflies in the pit of our stomach and we go to pick up the phone to make our cold calls, but then you hear that you have mail on your PC …. and you just have to check you emails. that pan is in the wrong place on your desk, the dog wants water, the cats want feeding, then the bell rings and it’s the postman …. actually I’m thirsty, let’s get a cuppa, now where was I oh yes this email, how shall I respond ……. oh look its 10:30, … got to go out for my next meeting. I’ll get back to making those cold calls tomorrow when I have more time ….. but tomorrow you find more excuses, more ways to avoid making them, more ways of “notworking”.

Some sales trainers tell you that you can avoid making cold calls by becoming good at networking and asking for referrals. And you can. 98% of my business comes from referrals. BUT IT’S TAKEN 3 YEARS TO GET HERE!!

Could I have reached that point faster? Possibly. I could have been to more than 5 networking events a week for 2 years. I could have done more than ten 121’s a week for 2 years. I could have not missed my daughter’s nativity play because I was in a networking meeting and too embarrassed to leave early during the speakers talk because of my need for approval by my peers (largely total strangers) and let down my pride and joy, my eldest daughter as she’d probably forget (actually she didn’t and still reminds me two years on!!). I could have asked for more referrals from my friends and allies.

But it takes time and it takes effort to build up that momentum. Cold calling is simply the fastest and most efficient way of building a sales pipeline to get you in front of potential buyer but most people don’t know how to do it well and fear making those calls. They fear rejection. They fear disapproval. This isn’t like asking for a dirty magazine or for men putting condoms in your trolley and looking for the male checkout worker because you’re embarrassed enough for it not to be a woman. Your dirty little secret that you avoid talking about with your mother is that you’ve become one of those people who make cold calls … or doesn’t as the case may be. If you don’t make them, then mum can’t be disappointed in you for becoming one of those nasty salespeople.

According to the DTI survey I read a couple of years ago, in 2005 43% of all new business was generated via an initial phone call. 47% via word of mouth referral, leaving all the other media 10%!!

If you’re not cold calling at all or effectively, you’re potentially leaving behind 43% of your business. Suppose it was only half that. If you grew your customer base by only 20% what would that do for your business? Your cashflow? Your lifestyle?

I teach people mental strategies to eliminate their fears and create effective behaviours, to rewrite their mental and negative emotional scripting around selling, account management and cold calling. I teach managers how to get their teams to perform better and motivate then for the behaviours that will make them successful. But the starting point always has to be the seller’s mind. That’s where the sale is won or lost. That’s where the meeting is booked. That’s where the customer establishes confidence in you as a seller. It’s not during your superb presentation. It’s not during your close.

Victory happens between your ears long before your customer ever meets you or hears your voice on the phone.

Cold calling should and can be fun. I do it but I still don’t love it. But I don’t need to. I just have to do it.

A couple of pointers to help you on your way ……

1. Mentally prepare for making calls
2. Remember the gatekeeper isn’t your mother. You don’t have to answer her questions
3. The call you make to that prospect could be the most important one s/he receives that day, week, month, and year or perhaps in their life (I genuinely believe that if I don’t get through then I’m doing them a DISSERVICE because I know I can help almost anyone who has to sell, manage, motivate or recruit salespeople.
4. Notice your mental scripts that hold you back. Whose voice is it? What’s their tonality? How do you feel?
5. Notice how you feel about making cold calls?
6. Identify your call avoidance strategies and behaviours? What triggers them? How do you act on those triggers?

Seek help. Get a cold calling buddy. Call together for support …. regularly. Become accountable to someone for your prospecting behaviour. Call each other’s prospects so you’re not emotionally attached to the outcome or the product and book meetings for each other. Obviously I’m going to say get some training (I would!!) but make sure it’s not the same old claptrap about elevator pitches and having a strong opening benefit statement – you’ll just sound like a salesperson. When you hear a cold caller on the line, what’s your reaction? Total joy? Excitement? Or you want to get him or her of the line as fast as you can? “Send me some information?” “The timing is bad call me back later” (knowing full well you won’t take the call or be there when they do call back).

Learn strategies that take the pressure off you and your prospect. Learn how to break the buyer’s pattern of behaviour and forces them to give non-stock answers and rebuttals. Find ways to get invited in, so you don’t have to ask for the appointment …. so you go as a guest not a supplier (think about that, what’s the dynamic of a guest-host relationship (who serves who?))

In conclusion, get your head on straight. Realise that much of your behaviour is driven by subconscious processes developed in your early childhood by well meaning significant others – parents, grandparents, teachers, relatives. Mark Twain said something along the lines of “The inability to forget is far more devastating than the inability to remember”. Being unable to forget the feeling of rejection, the fear of making the first call, the feeling you were doing something dirty or unsavoury, the fear of interrupting or talking to strangers may be limiting you from growing your business and providing for your family or your future.

Make a decision to be master of your own destiny. And give yourself permission to do the necessary behaviours you need to do consistently, well, over time without the need for seeking the approval of others. Life and business are tough enough as they are without having to satisfy your need for approval of an ageing or even dead parent for whom our best was never good enough. And rewrite your mental scripting so they serve you not hold you back.

Happy cold calling!

(c) Marcus Cauchi & Sandler Systems Inc 2007


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